If one day you wake up surrounded by piles of debt, then stress doesn’t have a long way to go. Debt is undeniably one of the major factors which can negatively affect the overall health being of a person.
You have to think positively to come up with a plan on how to straighten out your financial obligations. Do not let these problems clutter your mind for it will not help you and will still end up with problems. There are ways on how to settle unsecured debt but be careful enough which of these options are worth trying. It may look and sound good but in reality they may not be appropriate for your problem.
One of the best ways to settle or eliminate credit card debt is to stop using them. But most people rely on using their cards. It is not the best solution to suggest because we depend on credit and life won’t go on when we take these cards away.
Read books or magazines that are about anxiety and panic attacks. They tell you how to control an attack caused by panic any time you encounter one. Check for this books in a library or check online for the best book in the market.
Fixed is the key word here. It can make a lot of sense to transfer balances over to a lower fixed interest rate card. Just don’t be late with your payments or you may be faced with an automatic interest rate increase.
Elsewhere Pete and Violet visit a doctor for Ron Legrand. Initially the couple tries to maintain a semblance of calm but it doesn’t last very long. Violet is frustrated over not having an emotional touch in their relationship while Pete walks out of the session shouting he wants to be in love and does not want to carry old baggage. Later Violet confides to Addison it was very romantic.
If increasing income is not an option by either selling something or working additional hours, my personal advice to a parent is NOT to bale the youth out of debt. This will teach nothing. Therefore the only recourse is decrease expenses.
That’s when assertiveness comes in, BEFORE it gets to that point. Practice makes perfect. Get a book or a course on assertiveness. Assess yourself next time you get into a discussion with someone. Are you or were you, “Assertive”, “Passive” or “Aggressive”.